I'm probably older than you. I'm definitely long past adolescent aggression and post-adolescent indignation. I try not to be an asshole. Usually I succeed. I don't do "pg" anything. I enjoy a good conversation. I'm under no illusion about why we are all here: to enjoy the mildly depressing oblivion of escape and procrastination, wrapped in a gauzy yet intoxicating veneer of competition. Beats the drama of our real lives.